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OUR YOUTH IN THE LIGHT OF THE QURAN
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• The Word as a medium of Instruction Question: In the
light of the bequest of Luqman to his son as he was exhorting him,
what is the value of direct
education in terms of guidance, perspective, and
advice?
• Abrahamic education
• Corrupt woman and society
• Studies on Noah's experience
• The Problem of Jealousy
• Friendship and Friends
• Parents and their Guardianship over
their Children
• Worship in its Broad Conception
• Quranic Youth
The issue of education is subject to many
influences arising from the various dimensions of human
perception-regardless of whether the forum of education is
intellectual, emotional, or pertains to the general environment of the
person. Therefore, it is natural that the word-which is the medium
that communicates the idea from one human being to another-should be
significant and dynamic enough to convey thought, spirit, and work.
Throughout the history of human communication, words have often been
suggestive of things which are not immediately apparent from the
language itself.
This is because the word becomes associated with
certain references which either widen the focus from or narrow it to
the core meaning.
Hence, the word has been the divine medium of
instruction, God having sent His prophets with sacred books, which He
revealed to them. We see that the movement of human education is the
long path of the word in human history, embracing every negative and
positive erect in this history.
EXHORTATION BY WORDS
In light of the above, let us continue in the same
general framework with respect to words. The words of exhortation used
in the Quran, wherein Luqman counsels his son, are designed to expand
his horizons on matters of doctrine and life.
We notice that the exhortation concerns ideas which
carry aspects related to the senses and the perception. Ideas are not
mere abstractions to be contemplated purely for their intellectual
content, but contain aspects grasped by sensory experience.
COMBINING INTELLECT AND EMOTIONS
Exhortation carries along with its ideational
aspect, certain elements of human sentiment and feeling, so that the
issue becomes one of combining the intellect and emotions. In this
manner it penetrates into the heart and mind of the person. For
mixing the intellect with emotions causes a state
which grips and transforms the person. The various dimensions involved
make a given concept something that tugs at the innermost core of the
person.
This is what we observe in every exhortation where
the intellectual aspect is in concert with the sensory and emotional
facet. When applied to exhortation or nurturing, this method is
probably the most effective in transforming a person. This is because
the error committed by many in planting an idea is to focus on the
purely cerebral aspect of their concept, rendering it much like a
lifeless engineering formula which addresses the human intellect
without in any way harnessing the other
dimensions of the human perception.
On the other hand, there are those who deal only
with the emotional aspect which does not spur a person to intellectual
contemplation. This leaves a gap between the concept and faith. And so
we find that many carry a certain thought, but do not really believe
in it, since the aspect of faith requires that an idea changes itself
into something that has to do with feelings.
QURANIC METHOD OF EXHORTATION
The value of the Qur'anic method is that it
attempts to articulate life issues. Therefore, we see that it presents
the idea in respect of what a person sees, hears, and touches. It
implants the concept in the deepest and sincerest parts of the
person's being, by process of fear, hope, hate, etc.
When we contemplate this, we find that the most
successful and effective exhortation is that which is well planned,
which is delivered by those who use the forcefulness of the intellect
and the gracefulness of the emotion, and which uses all that appeals
to cerebral and emotional faculties.
EXHORTATION BY EXAMPLE
A point which needs to be elaborated upon is that
speech may form the greater part of exhortation, but that the two may
in fact be far apart. There is the saying that he who does not have an
exhorter within himself, cannot benefit from an exhorter. This means
that a person can exhort himself by himself, in terms of his
experience. This is what Imam Ali spoke about in Nahj al-Balagha:
"The best of what you experience is that which exhorts you."
For your experience is what may teach you a lesson, concept, and
contemplation of your current situation, with respect to what
intellectual and sentimental aspects it possesses. On this basis,
therefore, we find that one type of homily is when a person preaches
by his actions before words.
In this fashion, we can put exhortation as an
umbrella term, encompassing every means of intellectual or behavioural
experience, or that which is related to the reactions of others.
All this shows that there is a broad outline for
the process of exhortation. Briefly, it is a functional method,
different in its means of delivery, which puts the concept to the
person and corrects what is corrupt in his life, straightens out what
needs to be in his character, or opens up to horizons hitherto closed
to him in his life.
ADDRESSEE'S ROLE
Homiletic address is the purpose of the preacher,
in that he presents his arguments to the best of his efforts in order
to push the idea he intended to stress. As such, the person who
accepts exhortation must have the ability, responsibility, and desire
to
do everything mentioned in this homily. This is
because exhortation is a response by words, by action, by example, by
any means that reaches the intellect. A person who does not react to
exhortation is no different from a corpse which has lost all the sense
faculties. Loss of the sensory faculties may be a natural state in a
dead person; it may be that a living person has frozen all sensation
in his being.
God speaks about this repeatedly in the Quran:
"They have hearts with which they think not,
they have eyes that see not, as they have ears that hear not"(al-A
'raf, 7:179).
This means that the human being may paralyze his
sensory faculties and perception, emotions or ambitions thus becoming
as a living dead: "It is
the same whether you warn them or do not warn them: they do not
believe"(al-Baqara, 2:6); God
has placed a seal on their hearts and hearing, and in their sight a
blindness (al-Baqara, 2:7)-i.e., how can you
incite a person to act on exhortation from within himself when he
rejects good preaching?
ABRAHAMIC EDUCATION
O my father! Do as you are commanded!
Al-Safat, 37:102
These are the words uttered by Ismael as he was
submitting to the divine will. Is it possible to emulate this
submission and obedience?
When we study the personality of Abraham from his
early rearing, we find a personality of human responsiveness to God.
This typified his reaction to every truth in life. When we wish to
study the noble Quran rhetorically, we find that Abraham
was a man who challenged corrupt ideas, whether of
non-belief or of polytheism. His challenges emerged directly from the
disquiet he felt when he learned about the people around him. This is
what we observe in him in his innermost thoughts, when reflecting upon
the personality of those who worshipped the stars, moon, or sun. He
expressed awe before the stars, the moon, and the sun in all their
glory. Challenging the idea of worshipping them, however, he declared
that they could not be gods, for God is present in every aspect of
life.
In our view, this indicates how his function of
guiding the community towards faith had caused a shockwave in the
midst of the community. It is demonstrated by his act of breaking the
idols and blaming the largest of these idols. His action was
based on the principle of forcing them to admit
that the idols could not speak: "Certainly
you know that they do not speak" (al-Anbiya,
21:65).
In the course of his action, he debated their
doctrine and ideology, and showed these to be baseless. This indicated
where he stood before his father, whom he dared in words which
sometimes evince empathy, sometimes reflect harsh reality.
His attitude is equally reflected in his opposition
to the tyrant of his time, when the latter declared, "I give life
and I cause to die." My
Lord is He who gives life and causes to die . . . Abraham said: God
causes the sun to rise from the east, then make it rise from the west.
And so the one who disbelieved was confounded. Al-Baqara,
2:258
THE MAN OF GOD
We may note-from the foregoing-the condition which
makes Abraham a man of God, someone intensely aware of his
responsibility that he should live for God and far from every other
attachments, and all difficulties, in order to find himself a servant
of God. So much so that he felt it is incumbent upon him to dedicate
his entire life to God.
This is what we infer from God's words, "And
God took Abraham as a friend'(al-Nisa', 4:125).
God's friendship for Abraham was due to Abraham's friendship for God,
being reciprocal in kind: "He
loves them and they love
Him" (al Ma'ida, 5:54).
This relationship of worship is the highest connection that a mortal
can have with his Lord. This expands and develops into friendship.
The friendship between Abraham and God, an
inevitable result of active worship, led to the realization that
Abraham's presence depended on God. Concomitant with this is the
knowledge, too, that the entire universe is dependent on God. This
made Abraham perceive one of the ways towards God when he asked Him to
bring the dead back to life: Show
me how You give life to the dead. [God] said: Do you not
believe? [Abraham] said: Most certainly! But only
that my heart be at ease. Al-Baqarah, 2:260
This shows that when Abraham spoke to his Lord,
when he lived with Him, he perceived a life of spontaneity and
inspiration, mixed with the observation of faith in worship, on the
one hand, and love and obedience, on the other.
From this perspective, we find that Abraham lived
Islam for God, and we are likely to understand from the Quran that he
was the first to use the term al-Islam:
The milla of your father Abraham, who called you
Muslims from before . . .al-Hajj, 22:78
When his Lord told him: Submit [aslim], he said: I
submit to the Lord of all the Worlds. And Abraham left a legacy to his
children, as did Jacob, saying thus: O my children! God has chosen for
you the religion, and die only as Muslims!
al-Baqarah, 2:131-32
It was Abraham who coined the word Islam
["submission to God"] after hearing it from God (Exalted).
As a result of this, every Abrahamic prophethood-if this term can be
used-took the name of Islam in its inclusive sense: "Verily
the religion with
God is al-Islam" (al-Imran,
3:19); "And whoever follows
other than Islam, it will not be accepted from him"
(al-Imran, 3:85). It is this comprehensive Islam which is carried in
every prophethood; it is the line of tawhid.
Naturally, we may note that Abraham was a man who
lived with God in his entire being and in all his actions. He worked
to establish an instructional modus in his particular environment.
This was so he could transmit to his descendants this realized
elevated Islam which he lived with God. He also worked towards
transmitting this Islam to all of humankind.
This is the message of the glorious verse: "And
Abraham left as a legacy to his children, as did Jacob, saying thus: O
my children! God has chosen for you the religion, and die only Muslims!"(al-Baqarah,
2:132).
ISLAM AS A MEDIUM OF INSTRUCTION
Islam then was a method of instruction which
Abraham wanted his children to exemplify. It would appear that this
method of instruction insinuated itself as a practical application in
the case of Ismael and as a policy in the case of Jacob.
When we read the words of God-"We
gave him tidings of a forbearing son" (al-Saffat,
3 7:101)-we see that Abraham had hoped for a son after his trials, and
God granted him a forbearing, far-sighted and patient son, who was
responsive of heart, and did not feel complicated regardless of how
pressing or difficult the circumstances. The verse "And when he
reached the age when he could go forth with his father"
(al-Saffat, 37:102) tells us that Ismael lived in
close attachment to his father in the time that they had spent
together. For any man blessed with a handsome son after enduring
suffering, this was only natural. Abraham gave his entire heart and
faith to
his Lord, and he taught his son his spiritual
contemplation, which reflected every aspect of thought, spirit,
worship, and deed. Ismael's state was, therefore, transformed into one
of Islamism being totally submissive to God just like his father.
THE CHALLENGE TO AFFECTION AND THE
SELF
From this comes the experience in which God ( The
Exalted) wishes the father and the son to live in order to give
example of Islam in its highest essence. This was realized in such a
way that the affection of the father was severely tested, when Abraham
was called to sacrifice his son, and not stand by and watch others
sacrifice his son. He had to subdue his own sense of affection, mercy,
love, and any loving
attachment-sentiments which reside in every father
towards his only and beloved child.
On the other hand, Ismael's love for himself was
also challenged. The faith of both was challenged. And this dared them
to respond to the subjection of one's affections for one's own child
(Abraham), and the killing of one's feelings towards
himself (Ismael). They both succeeded in this, and
this is what we note in God's words, for Abraham said to his son: "O
my son, 1 see in my sleep that 1 sacrifice you, so what do you think?
(al-Saffat, 37:102). According to the Quranic
text, Ismael did not stop once to think or reflect about this matter:
"He said: O my father! Do
as you are commanded; You will find me, God willing, among the
forbearing! "(ibid.).
FATHERHOOD AND PROPHETHOOD
The foregoing analysis tells us that Abraham
succeeded in rearing his son to this degree of spiritual Islam, where
a human being can subjugate his own feelings in deference to God's
commands. We can equally perceive that Abraham did not behave as would
many fathers whom God has blessed with a son after trial, by spoiling
and giving such a son a twisted and abused freedom; so much so, the
errors of the child come to be seen as holy, his evil as good-in the
light of the doting, blind affection which does not permit the father
to endure the pain of such a child.
We understand that there was some readiness on the
part of Ismael, and a sort of dedication from Abraham in his prophetic
test. Abraham did not see his son through the lens of mortals'
sentimentality; he saw him from a prophetic vantage point. A man like
Abraham has to comport himself in life as a slave of God, absolutely
dedicated to Him. It is not for me then to determine my fatherly or
paternal feelings towards my child, or to make his filial relation to
me a pretext for drowning myself in selfish feelings. Rather, I must
know that the son is a slave of Allah, and I must emphasize the
worship of God. I have to realize that he is a member of the human
community, and that I am obligated to make him a man, strengthened by
the human trials of faith and uprightness.
BLENDING HUMANNESS AND PROPHETHOOD
Abraham was able to blend his human with his
prophetic dimension. He did so from the perspective of fatherhood in
relation to prophethood, for he focused his human sentiments on making
his son truly elevated before God. He created a proximity between the
boy and God to achieve the overwhelming abundance of divine mercy and
paradise. In respect of prophethood, he directed himself to being a
prophet as much for his son as for all of humankind. Abraham did not
do as would many have: making his message one for humankind at the
expense of being distant and isolated from his own family and
children, leaving them on their own.
Indeed, Abraham succeeded in rearing prophetic
personalities after him. While building the House of God, he formed
the personality of Ismael by letting him accompany him in that task:
"And when Abraham and Ismael raised the foundations of the
House" (alBaqara, 2:127). He made Ismael live in the spiritual
atmosphere surrounding the construction of the House, an undertaking
at once spiritual and physical. Isaac and Jacob were able to perceive
things in this same light:
Were you not witnesses when Jacob was about to die,
as he asked his children: What will you worship after me? They said:
We worship your God, the God of your fathers, Abraham and Ismael and
Isaac, the One God, and to Him do we submit.
Al-Baqara, 2:133
Jacob, the grandson of Abraham, lived this
prophetic life under the aegis of Islam, and spoke to his children in
exactly the same manner as Abraham had done to his.
We find in the Quran no details as to the method of
instruction which Abraham followed with Ismael and Isaac, and which
Isaac used with Jacob. In the spiritual environment which Abraham
created for his children and by which the response of these children
was to be influenced, if we consider legacy as one facet and the
example another, and if we follow the same spiritual path they lived,
then all this plainly led to the efficacious results in the Islam of
Ismael, Isaac, and Jacob.
CHILDREN OF PROPHETS ARE LIKE ANY
OTHER HUMANS
Contrasting with the story of Abraham and Ismael is
the Quran's story of Noah and his son. In the former, there is an
invitation to sacrifice, in the latter an invitation to salvation.
On the one hand, there is obedience and submission;
on the other, rejection and rebellion. What can we learn from all
this? The children of prophets, Imams, and the `ulama [religious
scholars] are all human, like the rest of homo sapiens, molded as much
by positive influences as by negative ones. They probably live, too,
within the arena of conflict, where positive forces confront negative
ones, that each may learn and experience internal conflict by
wrestling with powerful external conflict.
On this basis, it is not a foregone conclusion that
the child of a prophet will be righteous, or that the child of an Imam
or a `alim or an activist will be like the parent. The father forms
part of the environment, and he is simply one of several factors which
condition the personality of the child. The father may live a sort of
existence that is unstable or weak, in the course of which he cannot
exert any strong influence on his family which might offset opposing
forces or pressures impinging on his own activities.
All this may constitute a problem for those who
call to Islam, whether they be prophets, guardians, or `ulama. This is
because the pressure of belief and challenge in calling others to
Islam can engage man's full attention at the expense of his household.
He is open to the entire world and closed to his family. This is the
course required by this lifestyle; he distances himself from personal
matters, on the view that his family is one of those "personal
matters".
INFLUENCES OF A CORRUPT COMMUNITY
One thing that deserves mentioning is that a
corrupt community may take away a prophet's family from him without
any resistance. This is because resistance (by the
prophet) is directed against the greater community,
and it may very well be that the force of the opposition represents
enough material strength and challenge to undermine the basic elements
of prophethood, as the mundane circumstances work themselves out. The
prophet-no matter which one-when delivering his message in the face of
this great obstacle, does not possess every medium. Only some media
apply: with respect to personal charisma and ability. The world of
prophethood is not the world of the unseen, but the world of human
abilities, which may be connected with the unseen in some instances or
respects, but not in the full sense suggested by such knowledge.
In this setting, the community may be transformed
into a powerful force even on the household of a prophet, guardian, or
scholar. This is because such a community possesses the influences of
a deviant society which can entice a household,
enough to destroy a prophetic message. Some
prophets, scholars, and saints have even been tested through their
spouses who take an opposite stance to the prophetic message, opposing
the actions of the prophet. This is what the Quran tells us about
the wives of Noah and Lot:
God sets forth as an example to the disbelievers
the wife of Noah and the wife of Lot. They were under two of our
righteous servants, but they betrayed them so that they [the husbands]
availed them naught against God. It was said to them: Enter the fire
with those who go therein.
Al-Tahrim, 66:10
BETRAYAL OF THE MESSAGE
We understand from the above that the falseness was
not one of sexual honor and fidelity; but rather of betrayal of the
message-betrayal of the trust of such a message.
Naturally, such a situation has a negative effect
on the children of prophets, Imams, and scholars.
The above verses also show that the influence of
the mother is great, and can be negative in both thought and conduct,
if she follows the trends and corruption of infidelity. The reason is
that she brings her ideas into the household, where a prophet may be
beset by her, much the same way he is beset in the community. He is
unable to protect his home, since his own wife is a part of that home,
and she may have such an effect from which he cannot rescue himself.
The Quran does not provide any biography of Noah's
son, but we note that his father encouraged him to board with them,
and not to be from among the losers: "Embark
with us, and do not be with unbelievers" (Hud,
11:42).
It seems however, that the son was rebellious. He
neither respected his father nor paid heed to his warnings. He did not
believe in what his father was shown of the unseen, nor in his ability
to face matters in a way no one else could. He said, "1
will go to a mountain which will protect me from
the water" (Hud, 11:43). Noah, at that moment losing all hope in
his son, replied, "On this day, there is no saving from God's
command" (ibid.). When Noah called upon his Lord, it was not in
confrontation, but in supplication, for God ( The Exalted) promised to
help his son: "He said, "My Lord! My son is from my
household and your promise is true! "
God replied, "O Noah! He is not from your household, for his
deeds are unrighteous" (Hud, 11:45-46).
INFLUENCE OF THE MOTHER
Why was the son of Noah not among the believers? By
asking ourselves this question, we can, according to the Quranic text,
relate the son to the mother. We find that the son was more under his
mother's than his father's influence, for his father was alone. On the
other hand, the mother was very much a part of the community, whether
they were relatives or not. It is natural then for a child to live in
this community and to function according to its conditioning, without
his father being capable of most of his responsibility or of living
with a minority of believers who can influence his son. We can
understand the difference between the case of Ismael and that of the
son of Noah; Ismael lived in an environment where Abraham was able to
remove his son from pressure. Hence, the boy lived in an environment
where the
negative influences of society exerted no pressure.
At that time, his mother was also a righteous believer. In the one
case, the boy's learning process was protected, in the other (son of
Noah) it was not.
This is what Islam focuses on in the case of
marriage-namely, that the believer should marry someone who is
religiously observant. So much so that a person, according to a hadith,
had once said to the Prophet, "Who should I marry?" The
Prophet replied, "You must marry one who is religiously
observant." This is the issue that concerns the spouse. Indeed
"if there comes to you someone whose character and religion
please you, marry him, for if you do not calamity and great evil will
prevail in the earth." Islam then focuses on the correctness of
the household, that the wife should be a religious woman, and that the
husband should be a man of religion. An Islamic nursery is primarily
for the child, whose senses and perceptions are molded to such a
degree that, in the face of corruption, he will resort to this primary
conditioning as the basis.
However, when there are different forces in the
household, where the father wants the child to incline towards faith,
and the mother wants the child to incline towards
non-belief and corruption, or vice versa, then the
issue will normally be one which does affect the harmony of the two
parents. We do not wish to hold that the parents are everything, but
it must be emphasized that their role is tremendous.
In the light of this, it is possible for us to
learn from the case of Noah that the father should not be confident
that because he is righteous, his son shall be righteous as well. In
fact, it is a duty of the father to be cautious about the lack of
righteousness in his wife, for that could adversely affect his child.
It is the duty of the father in this respect, not to believe that
there are corrupting influences too powerful for him to
fight. People should also avoid using the
corruption of a child as a mirror of the corruption of the parent, in
the manner which some people claim, "Go and look after your
son!" It is true that God charges a man with responsibility for
his family and for
himself, along with his relatives as well. But this
does not mean that such responsibility is one hundred per cent.
Rather, it is a responsibility proportional to the abilities that he
possesses in this regard.
TRUTH REFUTES DISTORTIONS
Is prophetic influence not negated, or its power
undermined, if the house is torn from within? This issue can leave
adverse effects in the eyes of the public against those who call to
God, even for a prophet, guardian, or believer. Those who wish to
exploit this issue try to portray the negative aspect, as follows:
This man cannot be truly serious about his call;
his undertaking could be for ulterior motives-probably for
recognition, position, or wealth. We see this in what God has told us
about the tribes of the prophets who told them that they wanted
influence, as in the case of Moses. The people said that were he
serious, truthful, and believing in his call, the sign of his belief
would have been to call his family, to make them believe in him. This
is exactly what people say to someone who calls to certain views and
does not abide by them, "Were he serious, he would have exhorted
himself and disciplined himself, and truly devoted himself to his
cause." This may create a bad influence in the general
atmosphere. But in my view, regardless of whether one is a religious
scholar , or a caller, when he exudes confidence, allowing people to
perceive the seriousness in his movements, noting that he does not
abandon his children to corruption; nor does he assume any special
privileges for them over others, or take a lax view in this regard
then people realize the seriousness of his call. The Prophet’s
uncle, Abu Lahab, who opposed the Prophet, was unable to influence him
because all the elements of prophethood were in the being of the
Prophet, who was serious in his undertaking. His preference for non
relatives (if they were Muslim) over his own kin made people see that
his lack of influence on his own family was resulted from no lack of
commitment. Rather, is was because of deep-seated elements present in
the personality of Abu Lahab and other relatives. As a result, Abu
Lahab left no negative influence on him.
I believe that if those who call to God were to
concentrate on this facet of confidence in their sentiments regarding
their children, and to convince the people that they do not stumble in
submission to their personal sentiments regarding their
children when the latter go astray, then any
negative effect that this would have on their movement would
effectively be nullified.
TEMPTATION VERSUS STRENGTH OF
CHARACTER
In Sura Yusuf, we find a youth who is pressed by a
lady of rank resisting that temptation. How can we get our youths to
understand Yusuf's resistance?
When we study the position of Yusuf, in his
difficult trial, we find that it was far more difficult than any our
youths normally undergo. This is because the atmosphere of incitement
in which youths of today live has many sources, but there is the
option of choice. For the most part, these incitements are not present
in the inner longings of youths, in the sense of losing all decision
in the matter or all freedom of action. In the case of Yusuf, we find
that he was a slave, bought by the husband of the woman with whom he
resided night and day before that difficult element in the attractive
personality of Yusuf was ever discovered. In the light of this, we
find that Yusuf was not attracted to this woman in any normal sense,
for it is nowhere mentioned that he was attracted by any aspect of her
beauty, or any sexuality. This means that Yusuf possessed the inner
resistance against this temptation. Someone may state that Yusuf was a
slave, and as such was unable to lookup to his lady-owner, since the
barriers of
class status would have made this improbable. We
note, however, that while these barriers may sometimes exist, they
were not always accepted, especially by the woman, who was prepared to
break those barriers.
FAITH AS A BARRIER TO TEMPTATION
It is probable that the trial Yusuf faced when the
wife of the `Aziz tried to seduce him, makes it clear that his refusal
to succumb was not as a result of any psychological barrier, but
rather of a barrier of faith. Consequently, we observe the words of
God: "And she desired him,
and he would have desired her, too, had he not seen the clear sign of
his Lord "(Yusuf, 12:24). These words are
usually said to signify that Yusuf wanted to hit her. However, the
explanation to which we incline, is enticement without feeling. This
is exactly as when a man is enticed by food and his body reacts when
he is hungry. This attraction did not last long. It is a natural
reaction, not one of calculated innate desire-had he not seen the
clear sign of his
Lord and was his faith not awakened? Infallibility
does not mean lack of attraction to unlawful food, drink, or desires.
Rather, it means not indulging in such unlawful things, for the
instinctive, natural attraction in these cases are not transformed
into action.
This experiment explains itself further when it
puts Yusuf with the women who said, "This
is not a mortal but a noble angel! (Yusuf,
12:31). By then, Yusuf‘s strength was beginning to weaken, impelling
him in a way that he could not ignore, for he had used up all his
power to resist the temptations of this woman. This is why he said:
"If You do not turn away
their snares from me, I should yearn unto them"
(Yusuf, 12:33).
FORTITUDE OF CHARACTER
From the foregoing, we know that what saved Yusuf
from his predicament was the dimension of his strong faith. This we
may see and understand when we examine his life with his father, a
time during which he reflected upon God. Yusuf had lofty spiritual
aspirations, and so we see that Jacob, in his affection and sentiments
for him, was able to raise him and to mold him into a strong human
being with fortitude in his character. Perhaps this is the reason why
he loved his child so much, and not because of the boy's physical
beauty. For when we study the attitude of Jacob towards his children,
we find his pride and joy in them have been because they were Muslims.
From this we understand that Jacob found in Yusuf a
boy who was unique in his faith in God and in harmony with prophetic
conduct. This made his other sons jealous, and caused them to conspire
to rid themselves of Yusuf.
THE APOSTOLIC SPIRIT
Perhaps what indicates to us the apostolic spirit
which permeated Yusuf’s being is that from the time his brothers
plotted against him to the time he was imprisoned, he underwent no
instruction in the faith, learned no apostleship or piety from anyone.
Instead, he endured the schooling of evil, encountering it at home and
in the society he lived in.
When we reflect upon his life in jail, we find that
he entered it to call to the way of God, the Glorious: "O
my two fellow prisoners! Are many different lords better, or is God
the One, the Irresistible? (Yusuf, 12:39). This
indicates that Yusuf possessed the apostolic mentality, which must not
only permeate the apostle himself but also influence those around him.
The apostolic spirit in which Yusuf comported himself in his own right
and in his community is what made him take his stand. This is what we
must emphasize about the necessary steps in an upbringing that is
spiritual, full of faith, and effective. I would almost say that a
dynamic personality can be more effective in teaching a believer the
power of resistance and self-protection from the influences of others
than a believing man who is little concerned about faith or his
community.
Yusuf was certainly a dynamic person in the
apostolic path, and I presume that his effective Islamic
upbringing-where the facets of contemplation of spirituality, action,
and the call to God were so vital was what made him take the strong
position he did. He perceived within himself that his duty was to
guide the people among whom he lived, rather than be influenced by
them. It was this sterling spirit that enabled him to achieve his
strong resistance.
THE FORTITUDE OF A WOMAN
Up to this point, the discourse has been about the
strength of character in a man like Yusuf. What about the fortitude of
a woman or her role in strengthening character?
When discussing Yusuf, we did not deal with his
fortitude as a man, but only as a believing, apostolic human calling
towards God and struggling in His cause. Thus, this discourse may just
as well be directed to a believing Muslim woman, whose heart is open
to Islam. For it is absolutely essential that there be an atmosphere
of proper training and righteousness. And for proper method,
appropriate setting, and dynamic mentality with the intention of
establishing the power to resist temptation in a believing woman, no
less than in a man one must realize that the humanness of a person is
not the product of instinct. It is that towards which this person's
training guides him.
This agrees with what Ali, Amir al-mu 'minin, had
taught in his letter to Ibn Abbas: "You should not regard the
attainment of pleasure and the satisfaction of the desire for revenge
as the best that this world can offer. Rather, it should be the
destruction of evil and the revival of truth. Your pleasure should be
in that which you send forth; your grief that which you leave behind;
your desire is that in what is after death." From this, we may
conclude emphatically that one should not follow the path of natural
inclination, but rather that of training and education. This does not
mean that instinct is to be totally denied, but that we should let it
take the direction in which God guides it, and confine it to the
bounds which Allah has prescribed for it. We must see ourselves in our
role as Muslims, doers, and callers to the path of God, working in His
path to save humankind from the chaos of instincts, instead of adding
to such chaos by letting our own instincts go unchecked.
THE PROBLEM OF ENVY
In Surat Yusuf, there is another point for
reflection. Yusuf's brothers had plotted against him, although they
all lived under the same shelter of Prophet Jacob. How can we explain
their stance against their brother?
Perhaps the problem for many people, whether they
are the children of prophets, Imams, scholars, or true believers who
live in a special spiritual environment, is that they live the aspect
of faith as some specific personal trait. Under this condition, their
faith is devoid of many deep-rooted, active motivational dimensions,
quite unlike the situation where their faith constitutes the prime
motive, pervading their innermost
being. Therefore, as far as they are concerned,
religion is obviously restricted to worship, or imitative
spirituality. Morality, however, is an aspect which requires certain
self-discipline and self-control in the battle against the animal
instincts that rage between the two elements in the psyche-that of the
believer and that of self. Their moral and ethical being might not be
lived with any deep-rooted conviction, their instruction in these
matters being an integral part of their personalities.
THE ERA OF THE IMAMS
We may find several negative traits associated with
the moral values of many people described above, as seen from the
examples of the era of the Imams. History tells us about the stance of
Banu al-Hasan regarding the Imams from Banu al-Husayn, from which we
can perceive a condition that may be likened to envy or some such
vice. We also see that some of the children of the Imams betrayed Imam
al-Kazim to Harun al-Rashid, just as they did with Ja'far b. al-Hadi.
There are some situations where inner workings do not correspond to
the positive responses, but in some cases they may reflect negative
attitudes. This is because human beings lose many of their values in
certain situations. Likewise the case with the children of Jacob, for
they lived with selfishness regarding Yusuf and his brother, whose
mother was not theirs.
It is possible, too, that the problem was a
conflict between the two mothers, on the one hand, and between them
and their two brothers, on the other hand. The other brothers became
envious of Yusuf whom Jacob preferred not for emotional reasons, but
because Yusuf's righteousness was so much more than his brothers. This
was an issue that caused them to become envious and to contemplate
their attack on him in the manner it transpired.
If there is one question that must be raised, it is
that are these "prophets"-it is not confirmed that they were
and the Quran apparently does not present them as such. They probably
were reformed after the events unfolded selfish motives which had
influenced them were obliterated.
THE ISSUE ON THE ASPECT OF DAAWA
We would like to present information on this
subject relating to the situation in which we live. We will,
therefore, focus on work which the scholars , believing fathers, and
those who guide to the path of Allah should embark upon. They should
not succumb to the atmosphere of faith in which the believers now
live, whether inside or outside their homes. It may appear to them
that the presence of Muslim boys and girls outside, in the broader
Islamic context, reflecting an environment of faith is enough to
qualify for an upbringing which possesses all the elements that will
ensure they will take the right path. Rather, there must be concerted
attempts to innovate the method of instruction and the education of
ethics and morals. This should point to different approaches and
perspectives.
We feel that a variety of approaches, renewal, and
opportunities for implementation of the doctrine of faith in this area
would be a stark contrast to the routine that normally causes concepts
to stagnate in the mind of the believer, and thus become ineffective.
For, like anything to which people have become accustomed, there is
need for dynamism, which makes an issue effective in the life of the
person.
We should be able to deduce from Surat Yusuf the
milieu of upbringing where envy results in enmity towards whoever is
envied. We see that when Yusuf’s brothers experienced envy towards
Yusuf and his brother, and plotted to kill him, the outcome was that
Yusuf looked after them, adopted them, and cared for them in a most
elevated and lofty spirit. He had this spirit when God caused him to
be reunited with his parents and his brothers after a long absence and
severe complications. His brothers discovered that he had a broad
vision when he assessed things and that he harboured no vengefulness
after reaching this lofty position. He did not seek to harm them or
seek any retribution. Instead, he took them close to him, keeping them
in exile according to the apostolic spirit which he possessed, asking
God to unite his brothers with himself in the best manner possible.
Whoever then prefers to be jealous of a good person
who is a doer and a facilitator, whether he is a relative or not,
should recall that the desired positive results can still be attained.
He should examine himself in the light of the spirituality of this man
from the outset, without resorting to inimical measures in any way. We
see that the brothers of Yusuf, had they opened up to Yusuf and his
brother, and engaged in discourse, would have found that the element
of spirituality in Yusuf's personality was abundant. So abundant was
this element that it was enough to ward off most of their negative
feelings, because of the preference Jacob had for Yusuf and his
brother.
Every believer must understand that envy does not
yield any functional result of the kind they would like to see afflict
the person of whom they are jealous. This is especially true when the
sense of faith awakens inside, and they realize that the entire matter
is with God. For it is God who changes the situation and, as such, the
person of whom they are envious cannot be affected negatively by their
feelings. Moreover, their enmity towards the person can never result
in anything which God does not will, for nothing can take place
without His permission and desire, even indirectly.
THE ENVIOUS PERSON MUST TAKE A POSITION OF
CONTEMPLATION
These persons need to reflect on an issue and to
realize that God can perhaps bestow on them what He has bestowed on
the person of whom they are envious, without taking anything away from
them. This is because God's bounty is without limit; it is sufficient
for them and the person of whom they are envious. God's storehouses
are never depleted, and this is what is termed "rapture",
whereby a person feels that his Lord will give him as much or even
more than He has given others.
Consequently, I think that the story of Yusuf
serves as a living example, when we reflect on it from beginning to
end. When we study the life of Yusuf, we must reflect on his reaction
towards his brothers and on how God paved the way for this weak human,
who was pawned and exposed to death; how God paved his way to becoming
a judge in Egypt. This is what Yusuf was referring to when he said:
"My Lord You
have given me kingdom, and taught me the
interpretation of sayings. You are my Guardian in this world and the
hereafter; make me die as a Muslim and join me with the
righteous" (Yusuf, 12:101). For Yusuf showed he was aware that
all of this was due to God's bounty for him.
From this, the person afflicted by envy should
think, when plotting against another, that God (Exalted) will raise
the standard of the sincere so high that the envious person will wish
that the other person had remained in his original position. A person
holding such a grudge will not be spared the rising agitation of
viewing this great blessing that God confers on the target of his
envy.
Those who work in the path of God, whether they are
`ulama or believers with these negative traits, must open themselves
to the dynamics of faith in God in their life, so that they may
realize that "jealousy consumes faith just as fire eats
wood."
SPIRITUAL WEAKNESS
There are those who believe that the conduct of
Yusuf’s brothers was due to a lack of proper understanding. Others
assume that their shortcomings was the result of spiritual emptiness.
Spirituality is the main factor in this issue;
whether there is complete or only partial understanding, the aspect of
intellectual contemplation is not sufficient to motivate the life of
human beings to act properly. This is because motivation stems from a
human being's spirituality, which allows him to endure deprivation in
important areas of life, and to assume the moral obligations which God
has imposed on him.
I, therefore, assume that the aspect of
spirituality is the basis. From this perspective, the aspect of
imitative religion for the person living in a complete religious
atmosphere makes religion "the roof of the house," as it
were. As such, there are many scholars who, when people draw their
attention to these negative traits of conduct, will pounce on these
people, saying, "You are trying to teach us, when we are the ones
who write books, the ones who preach, the ones who guide!" It is
as if they were saying, "These things are our specialty, and thus
we understand them better than you do." The fact of the matter,
however, is that they may well understand better, but sadly they may
not be better in their spiritual contemplation in
respect of function than those they criticize
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